OMG! OMG! Girls I need some advice...Sunday I met a guy that I had been "friends" with online. He came to visit me from Georgia.(He is an hour away from me on TDY until January.)We hung out for a few hours, just laughing and talking and he helped me with getting some homework completed. So we had a good time;it seemed like we hit it off very well. When he was leaving you know we gave each other a hug and out of the blue he kissed me! :droolAnd before I knew it we were in full blown make out mode!!!!! :devil Well...after we finally rip ourselves apart he left or whatever. Well know for some reason I have "the morning after" complex, except he gave me his number and I did NOT give him mine. So the calling falls on me. Although we haven't even talked on IM. Should I call or just chalk it up to me being a horn dog and let it go???? I mean don't get me wrong I want to but I don't want to appear desperate or anything kwim?

If you like him, call him! Good luck!

Has he just not been online and that's why you haven't IMed? I'm a big coward. I'd wait for IM. :D

If you like him, call him! Good luck!

:yes If you like him call him. When I met my DH I asked him for his number and I called him.

If you like him, call him! Good luck!

:yes If you like him call him. When I met my DH I asked him for his number and I called him.


:truesign :agree if you want something you must go after it :yahoo
I made the first move on my DH :woot Good luck :goodvibes

I agree, CALL HIM!!! Gool luck! :)

Has he just not been online and that's why you haven't IMed? I'm a big coward. I'd wait for IM. :D

Not that I know of he hasn't but with my schedule (2 jobs, full time student-18 hours, and Jasmine) I haven't been on much. He is supposed to start his training Wednesday so he could have been busy with that but the coward in me and saying wait for the IM too....;)

:truesign :agree if you want something you must go after it :yahoo
I made the first move on my DH :woot Good luck :goodvibes

I'm going to take you guys' advice and give him a call. It wouldn't hurt and then at least I would know where I stand I guess...now I just have to get up the nerve. :screwy

How about if we all virtually kick you? Would that help!?! :giggle

Good luck, I hope its good news!

I"d call......but you already said you decide you would.......so good luck and give us the update!!

I say, if he gave you his # then definitely call him! If he didnt want you to call then he would have asked for your number instead of giving you his right?

Well girls I am officially an idiot!!! I didn't call him when I had a free 5 minutes to do it yesterday!!! but today he takes his test for the training he started so i am going to shoot to give him a call around lunchtime today...Shannon I will take that red wine now! :giggle

:D I'm not one for making a good example either.

So Sunday night/Monday I spent with this guy, first date. We hit it off seriously well. And then he called on Tuesday I think, we talked briefly but for some reason I wasn't sure about stuff. Last night he sent me a bunch of text messages when he was out at the movies. Then we he got home said hi on IM, but I was about to go to bed. So I kind of hinted that if he had anything else he wanted to say, he should before I left. Then he said "Don't stay up for my sake" or something like that. I'm like "Well, okay" to which I got no response and so I went to bed.

I can't tell if I'm supposed to be putting on the moves here and asking for a second date, or if he just wants to be quasi-friendly and that's it. But seriously, if the man doesn't ask me out on a second date by this weekend, that's it. He needs to get on a ball.

I'm a big coward so I would probably wait until he got online. But if I could actually work up the nerve to call him, I would hope that I would get his voicemail so I could give him my number and then it would be on him to call!

:D I'm not one for making a good example either.

So Sunday night/Monday I spent with this guy, first date. We hit it off seriously well. And then he called on Tuesday I think, we talked briefly but for some reason I wasn't sure about stuff. Last night he sent me a bunch of text messages when he was out at the movies. Then we he got home said hi on IM, but I was about to go to bed. So I kind of hinted that if he had anything else he wanted to say, he should before I left. Then he said "Don't stay up for my sake" or something like that. I'm like "Well, okay" to which I got no response and so I went to bed.

I can't tell if I'm supposed to be putting on the moves here and asking for a second date, or if he just wants to be quasi-friendly and that's it. But seriously, if the man doesn't ask me out on a second date by this weekend, that's it. He needs to get on a ball.
I think I have the same dilemma I don't know whether I should make the move to hang out again. I don't know girlie :dunno
I'm a big coward so I would probably wait until he got online. But if I could actually work up the nerve to call him, I would hope that I would get his voicemail so I could give him my number and then it would be on him to call!

Yeah that's my plan too hopefully I will get the voicemail and I can say something corny and leave my number. :giggle