Russ likes to download pics of nude women for his screen saver and wall paper. Normally I don't mind because he usually picks classy women, but lately I've been seeing a bunch of trashy girls that call themselves Suicide Girls. So I told him yesterday that the girls I've been seeing are trashy and asked why he had them on there. He tells me that he has a thing for girls with tattoos and piercings and then continues to tell me that while he thinks girls like that are sexy, he refuses to get into a relationship with a girl that has them because he doesn't want a cheap woman. Does that make sense at all? I'm kind of confused as to what he thinks of me now. Because although I don't have my piercings anymore, I have tattoos. Does he think I'm cheap? When I tried to ask him about it he didn't even bother to answer me. It kind of pisses me off that he can think it's sexy in pics, but at the same time think it cheapens a woman.

I would talk to him some more Cher!!! He doesn't have a reason to have those kinds of pics up on his screen saver! Tell him to take a pic of you and put it up there!!! :D

I would talk to him some more Cher!!! He doesn't have a reason to have those kinds of pics up on his screen saver! Tell him to take a pic of you and put it up there!!! :D

LoL ... I told him that if he'd like he can take a pic of me as a replacement for those girls :giggle

I did talk to him tonight about it. He told me that when he said "cheap" he was referring to the girls that are head to toe tattooed :jerkit Honestly, I don't know if he's telling me the truth or not, but I wanted him to know that what he said hurt my feelings.

Im sorry Cher :(
I know about suicide girls too and wow....
I would have a big issue with the naked woman period... but that's my low selfesteem talking.

I used to be really bothered by naked girls and stuff like that, but I think as I got older I just stopped worrying about it. So he can keep the naked girls, I would really like him to take those nasty suicide girls off there though. I mean, I would rather not see pics like that while I'm standing at the island in my kitchen eating breakfast? (Our desks are in the dining room that is attached to the kitchen.)

I hope y'all get things straightened out! He should respect the fact that you don't like them!

Cher....you want me to kick his ass?? I have time on Sunday:giggle


That was really rude though...what a person has or doesn't have is not what cheapens them...it is all in the attitude and how that person portrays themselves
He has a very poor view of who women really are if he feels that way....I'm sorry hun!

Cher....you want me to kick his ass?? I have time on Sunday:giggle


That was really rude though...what a person has or doesn't have is not what cheapens them...it is all in the attitude and how that person portrays themselves
He has a very poor view of who women really are if he feels that way....I'm sorry hun!

Yes! Come over and give him a good ass kickin', Judy! He needs it :bringit :club :kungfu :fight

I agree, he has a very poor view of women. I blame that partially on his dad though. I mean, I know Russ is a grown man, but his father hasn't the slightest clue when it comes to women either :no

Huh. I just have a poor view of the "Suicide Girls" website. This totally skeevy guy that my friend roomed with for a year was obsessed with it, and he totally creepy, gross, so I just shudder at the thought of it.

In terms of tattoos and piercings, those girls on that website aren't just pierced, but they're part of an alternative scene, many of them goth and fetishy. So I mean, it's one of those things like, he thinks it's hot and kind of taboo, but at the end of the day, you wouldn't want to take that girl home to mom. Your average girl with some tattoos and subtle piercings, but dresses in Gap and holds a 9-5 job, is not really in the same category.