Do you think it would be ok to "write letters to our angels" in this forum? I know my situation is a little different than most. I remember how I felt after my 8 losses, but Danica..... I don't know. I know that I got more time than most of you. So please be honest with me about this. It wont offend me in the least, because I do understand the different types of loss.... before Danica, I used to think at least so &so had that time, I didn't. And I was bitter about it. So, I want your honest opinion on if this would be ok. Don't worry my feelings wont be hurt at all. I guess I am just looking for somewhere to write my feelings down instead of keeping the "strong mom" front up. It's starting to fall.....


I am sorry if this is rambling. My ambien kicked in faster than I thought it would. I will go back and fix this better in the morning.

I think that anyone who's ready to write a letter to their angel should definitely do so. It's a very nice idea, and can definitely help a deep wound heal a little. Post a thread for your letter whenever you feel it's time. :hugs

I think it is a great idea.

I too think that's a great idea.

I am certainly not bitter that you got that time with Danica and I think the letters would be nice and therapeutic for those of us that are ready.

It might be good to have some people to let it all out to, I'm not saying it would make things better, but it might help.

I think it is an excellent idea!

i believe its a great idea

I think its a good idea too. I think maybe then and only then, those of us who havent suffered a loss like that can better understand, even just a tiny bit, what you've got through and a little bit of how you're feeling. Then and only then will we be able to offer you the kind of support that you need. IMO that is.

I think that would be good therapy!

Thanks ladies. I will post the letter I wrote to her on the 6th of Jan. That day was 6 months since she has been gone. It's on the kids desktop and I dont want to turn lights on wake them up.

Do you think it would be ok to "write letters to our angels" in this forum? I know my situation is a little different than most. I remember how I felt after my 8 losses, but Danica..... I don't know. I know that I got more time than most of you. So please be honest with me about this. It wont offend me in the least, because I do understand the different types of loss.... before Danica, I used to think at least so &so had that time, I didn't. And I was bitter about it. So, I want your honest opinion on if this would be ok. Don't worry my feelings wont be hurt at all. I guess I am just looking for somewhere to write my feelings down instead of keeping the "strong mom" front up. It's starting to fall.....


I am sorry if this is rambling. My ambien kicked in faster than I thought it would. I will go back and fix this better in the morning.

I think its a great idea. I find my self some times jotting things down or talking to Jazmine at times as well like you do Danica our little girls were taken from us to soon and we will never know why but I like to think that they are together watching over us and playing together. You know I am here for you if you ever need anything and I know same goes for you for me .

:hugs i think it would be great sweetie. i hope that in time i can post some of my letters to Christian.