Icis_930
02-25-2008, 11:56 AM
When do u think its to soon to move in with the person you are dating?
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View Full Version : Movin in? Icis_930 02-25-2008, 11:56 AM When do u think its to soon to move in with the person you are dating? Amnicole2008 02-25-2008, 12:01 PM when you just started talking. I'd wait atleast a couple months to a year to make sure it is meant to be. don't want to rush anything right? Icis_930 02-25-2008, 12:08 PM no no no, i was just asking a question, i am bored and starting threads for the fun of it. Amnicole2008 02-25-2008, 12:10 PM Oh sorry LOL. Icis_930 02-25-2008, 12:11 PM its cool, my hiomegirl and her bf have lived together since day one and its been about 8 months now and they are engaged and doing great. Icis_930 02-25-2008, 12:12 PM long story on why they have lived together since day 1 too Amnicole2008 02-25-2008, 12:14 PM well that's good I am happy for them:) unwrittenlaw 02-25-2008, 12:23 PM i agree, give it at least 6 months. people can only hold their facade for about 6 months, then their true colors start to reveal. this happened to my mom and her ex husband, he was what seemed to be such a nice guy, catered to her every need etc. but as soon as they married, he became someone else, and started to abuse her. Icis_930 02-25-2008, 12:58 PM THIS IS NOT BECAUSE I AM GOING TO DO IT, ITS JUST A QUESTION. unwrittenlaw 02-25-2008, 12:59 PM duh, lol! ETA: i know its not you, just in general, and i was sharing a story:D Icis_930 02-25-2008, 01:00 PM ok, lol Shannon 02-25-2008, 01:18 PM I think that you should wait until you are married to move in with a significant other. Lux 02-25-2008, 01:20 PM I think you should wait at least a year. Christina 02-25-2008, 06:38 PM I think it depends on the couple, but I feel it's always good to get to know the person first before moving in together. I think it was nine months after dating Paul that we moved in together? It was the best thing to do at that time, but looking back it might have helped if we waited just a bit longer, but so far so good 8 years later:) ~*Amylynn*~ 02-25-2008, 06:45 PM I feel that it totally depends on the couple. Nick and I have lived together since about 3-4 weeks after we started dating...he was at my house every night at that point, anyway. and it was a better situation for him as well, he wasn't getting along with his parents, and needed a way out. He was going to move out anyway. And besides, we knew within a week or so that we were in love, and going to spend the rest of our lives together...we've been together for 2 years and 2 months, and living together for about 2 years 1 month....it works for us... |